08:56 am, catalinarusu
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To my narcissist friends

I inserted in this post a beautiful story, told by Elisabeth Gilbert during her 18 minute speech at TED, in February 2009. While listening to it, something familiar triggered in my mind. I am one of those believing that credits on creative genius should be taken by the person who has delivered to our society a piece of work, although, I do believe that that there’s a universal energy trend that generates somehow a certain amount of artistic, scientific or other type of occurrences in a certain amount of time, no matter the person who makes them public. I am surrounded by people who certainly believe that credits on creative genius should be owned by an individual. And, maybe, it would be more appropriate to say that there is a minority only who doesn’t.

I do believe that this kind of vision on this matter brings war. Not only war in its political acceptance, but also in its social and psychological senses.

Painting by Patricio Villarroel


My perfect scenario concerning this subject would be 50% love for what we’ve created and 50% gratitude for being able to do this, even if the cause is unknown.

My narcissist friends, my arrogant friends, I dedicate this story to us. Let’s enjoy it together and make our own conclusions!

“In ancient Greece and ancient Rome, people did not happen to believe that creativity came from human beings. People believed that creativity was this divine attendant spirit that came to human beings from some distant and unknowable source, or distant and unknowable reasons. The Greeks famously called these divine attendant spirits of creativity, “daemons”. Socrate, famously, believed that he had a daemon who spoke wisdom to him from afar. The Romans had the same idea, but they called that sort of disembodied creative spirit a genius. Which is great, because the Romans didn’t not actually think that a genius was a particularly clever individual. They believe that a genius was this, sort of magical divine entity, who was believed to literally live in the walls of an artist’s studio, kind of like Dobby, the house elf, and who would come out and invisibly assist with their work and would shape the outcome of that work. So brilliant - there it is, right there that distance that I’m talking about - that psychological construct to protect you from the results of your work. And everyone knew that this is how it functioned. So the ancient artist was protected from certain things, like, for example, too much narcissism, right? If your work is brilliant you couldn’t take all the credit for it, everybody knew you had this disembodied genius who had helped you. If your work bombed, not entirely your fault, you know? And this is how people thought about creativity in the West for a really long time.

And then the Renaissance came and everything changed, and we had this big idea, and the big idea was: let’s put the individual human being at the center of the universe, above all gods and mysteries, above mystical creatures who take dictation from the divine.  And it’s beginning of rational humanism, and people started to believe that creativity came completely from the self of the individual.  And for the first time in history, you start to hear people referring to this or that artist as being a genius, rather than having a genius.

And I got to tell you, I think that was a huge error. I think that allowing somebody, one mere person to believe that he or she is like, the vessel, like the font and the essence, and the source of all divine, creative, unknowable, eternal mystery is just like a too much responsibility to put on fragile, human psyche. It’s like asking somebody to swallow the sun. It just completely distorts egos, and it creates all these unmanageable expectations about performance. And I think the pressure of that has been killing off our artists for the last 500 years. And if this is true, and I think it is true, the question becomes, what now?

Can we do this differently? Maybe go back to some ancient understanding about the relationship between humans and the creative mystery. Maybe not. Maybe we can’t just erase 500 years of rational humanistic thought in one 18 minute speech. And there’s probably people in this audience who would raise like really legitimate scientific suspicions about the notion of, basically fairies who follow people around rubbing fairy juice on their project and stuff. I’m not, probably, going to bring you all along with me on this. But the question that I want to pose is - why not? Why not think about it this way? Because it makes as much sense as anything else I have ever heard, in terms of explaining the utter maddening capriciousness of the creative process. A process which, as anybody whoever tried to make something - which is to say basically, everyone here - knows, does not always behave rationally.”


06:05 am, catalinarusu
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01:40 am, catalinarusu
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Beauty over war

I don’t know how many of those who stopped by, asked themselves about the meaning of this blog’s title, but at least one person and I needed to read/write a post that would explain it.


First of all I have to say I like diversity, I like new, I like change and I like exploring, and experiencing. That is, I am going to write on different themes. So, trying to find a suitable title that would somehow define what you can read here, I have chosen “Beauty over war”.

And this is how I define this metaphor:

Beauty = strength, beauty, creativity, art, generosity, responsibility, color, will, courage, forgiveness, understanding, openness, integrity, unity, joy, support, love, freedom, dreams, faith…

War = splitting, ugliness, weakness, envy, fight, theft, discrimination, evil, revenge, humiliation, limits, frustration, fear, misery, selfishness, hate, slavery, mistrust, disorientation, hesitation

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All positive and negative that happens inside or outside is because of us creating beauty or war. It’s us who always choose. My manifesto is to choose consciously beauty over war!


11:49 am, catalinarusu
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You can dominate the world through greatness

… You don’t need to start a war.

“If you want it badly enough, and are willing to
make some changes in your life to cause it to
happen, you too can take over the world… or
do anything else you really want to do.  Yes,
you really can have it all.  The only things you’ll
need to give up are assumptions, expectations,
and the comfort zone that holds you back
from greatness.”

By Chris Guillebeau, “A brief guide to world domination”


02:24 am, catalinarusu
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Unknown beauties of two contrasting worlds..... in cold war

The Dior photoshooting for Life Magazine in Moscow, in 1959. Collection made by Yves Saint Laurent.


02:04 pm, catalinarusu
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What is Trigwee also good for?

Disclosure: I wrote this post for Trigwee blog

I love Trigwee, of course. If I didn’t, maybe you would have said I’m crazy or hypocrite. But lately I’ve discovered something really interesting: another use of it. If you decide it is a good way for you too, then feel free to do it and to spread the news.

While reading a blog post on Personalitatea Alfa, I had this revelation and I decided to share it with you. Pera Novacovici, the author of the post, was saying: “It is a well known fact that we are the average of our group concerning social health, success, happiness. We talk, we act and we have the same ideals as those around us.”

Photo by Vlad Stan

True, we can’t change the place we were born, our parents, we can’t even influence the choice of the first school we have attended and all these things are a base for who we are today, but at least, when we grow up, we can make our own choices. We have the power to change our role models, our way of thinking, our sources of inspiration and also our groups. That’s how the average I was talking about earlier in this post, can be increased or decreased.

Now, about Trigwee. It is a place where people share their dreams, those things that they consider they have to make a change in better in order to achieve. So naturally, it is an aspirational environment. Spending time here, you’ll become yourself a person who wants to make a change in better in his own environment and has the courage to do it.

So, good luck at being fascinating and happy!


07:12 am, catalinarusu
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The amazing sense of knowing what you want

Disclosure: I wrote this post for Trigwee blog

The other day, while talking to a friend, I suddenly had this amazing sense of knowing what I want. It felt so gooood. It was just like a prize you aim for so long and you finally get it.

It’s not only about knowing what you want. It’s about naturally, effortless, “built-in” knowing what you want.

How do you recognize this feeling? A random idea passes through your head. But, when your brain automatically translates it into a dream, your brain automatically finds ways to achieve it, your brain automatically searches your calendar to see whether it could be achieved in the following months, or in 1-2 years, or maybe in 3-4 years and you are just quietly contemplating the whole scene, that’s it! The feeling of what you really want.

Here’s the random idea I was telling you about which ended up in a well defined dream: Smile on a beach in Portugal, while hearing all around the sweet and incomprehensible Portuguese.

Portugal

Photo by k (summer break)

Then I realized. I started thinking more structured about the meaning of my thoughts and I started being more aware of what I want due to the exercise I had lately using Trigwee.

What about you? Have you ever experienced this feeling?

This post was written for http://blog.trigwee.com


04:14 am, catalinarusu
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How perceivable is the line that marks the difference between inspiration and obsession to copy? Perhaps, it is as visible for an unhappy you as the difference between beauty and war…


12:56 am, catalinarusu
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My name is confidence (made with iPhone Brushes)

My name is confidence (made with iPhone Brushes)


12:55 am, catalinarusu
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Make Beauty, not War (made with iPhone Brushes)

Make Beauty, not War (made with iPhone Brushes)